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ok so, my dad is a complete jack ass, according to me, he is completly insane and its driving me crazy.....thats my dad
my mom is sick, she has manic depression, she bought a bottle of perscription drugs and hid the EMPTY bottle, so this gave my jack ass of a faher the idea that she was on drugs! she said she was giving them to her one friend who is the same way as her, manic depression, he just doesnt choose to go to the doctors.....thats my mom
well they have been argeing since before i was born, i recently found out,
it drives me nuts and my dad, i think and my mom does too, is a total NUTCASE!!!!! he bitches at everything and he even spit on my mom once, another ime, this was like 4 years ago, he pinned her down cuz he got mad. i called him mental! he was like yea yea yea you think whatever the hell you want and go on keep letting your damn mother put things into your head, i said that she doesnt but he wont believe me. they argue about everything, you name it they fight about it, we even went to counciling once, they dragged me and my sister ino it!,THEY FOUGHT ABOUT THAT WHEN WE GOT OUT OF OUR SESSIONS!!! its crazy. my mom is thinking about me her and my sister are gonna move out in a couple of months, im happy, the only problem is that i dont want her to be alone, in a single way, because she is sick. knowing that i know that when we move, im gonna be the one taking care of both my sister and my mom. which i am kinda used to but i dont know i just dont want to have all the stress of getting me AND my sister AND my mom up in the morning, and then coming home from school and cleaning the house and everything!! so my questions are, should i worry? and, Do you think that its a good idea for them to get a divorce? and how do i help my mom and me and my sister deal with my moms sickness once we move out? please dont tell me to suck it up, im only 14 years old and my grandmoher said i shouldnt have to deal with all this and that i have grown 2 years in only 6 months!! help me please there is just sooooo much stress!!
sorry its long but *ill rate 5's for n e one with a good answer
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Hey Sweetie,
Honestly, you shouldn't be in the confliction your parent's are having. I think it is ridiculous how some adult's drag their children into everything.
As result to your problem, I think honestly that if your parent's have been arguing THIS long you should tell them how much you love them both an how you would feel if they weren't together ((only if you don't want them to split up)). But honestly if it has got to the point that your mom hides stuff from your dad then that is definetly how you know their love is starting to fade, also if your dad has touched your mom in any way than your definetly know it's not a good relationship. On the other hand I don't think you should be held responsible for your sister and mother, your mom should stand up an do something intead of letting you or your sister go down hill in school or something because your busy revolving your life around her and your fathers marrige.
If ya want my advice you should definetly try seeking someone's attention an exsplain to them what happened the last time you all tryed going to classes for your "Mother and Father's" personal problems toward each other.
Keep your head up baby girl I promice everything will be better in the end, an if it's not better than you know its not the end!!
-Stephanie-
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