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There isn't much to say about me. I like to give advice just as much as I like to get it. I think when you are in a situation it is much harder to see an obvious answer than if you are not in the situation.
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so for starters -- we'll call me jen, and my boyfriend jim. jim asked me out, and for some reason i knew that everything would be really awkward. since we're friends, and turning into more than that is weird. but we dont act like boyfriend - girlfriend people do, or, we havent gotten a chance to since he just asked me out last night ... but whenver we talk online & say goodbye it just ends as 'kk bye' or 'g2g bb' or something with no meaning. and we have nothing to talk about lately, mainly because of pressure, even thought im not sure what from. we were talking about clocks today. yes, clocks. and it all seems so, artificial. and i just want to break up with him, but if i do that, we probably won't be friends. any ideas? not sure what about -- just, ideas. or opinions. thanks xx.

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i would give it a couple weeks. most relationships are like that in the beginning. it was like that with the boyfriend i have now, but not for long.
on the other hand, i was friends with this kid and we started going out and it was really awkward. i gave it a couple weeks and it just didnt feel right. i broke up with him and since then we've been best friends. kinda weird, huh?

waiting a little while doesn't hurt, and breaking up doesn't ruin everything. wait a little while and do what you think is right.


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thanks you. :) good advice.




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