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Alright so me and my best guy friend, we are close. Close as in he tells me mostly everything. He's such a cool guy and I love him to death. [I'm not sure if I have feelings for him, I'm sure I don't] Well, people at school always tell me that he likes me, but I usually don't believe it. But lately he has been acting strange around me. Yesterday night we had a party thing, and I asked him if he wanted to dance[It wasn't even a slow song, and I wasn't trying to make a move or anything.] And he goes, and I quote, "No. I mean do you know how akward that would be later? I mean we are in the same math class." Yes we are in the same math class, and that seems to be the number one problem. If I ever ask him something in a friendly way [Like do you wanna dance?] he always uses the excuse that we are in the same math class as a way not to do it. But he always dances with my other friends and has a good time. But refuses me. I don't understand what's going on with him. Does he have feeligns for me and is trying to hide them? Or does he just not like me at all? (link)
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Hmm yeah that does sound a little fishy if he's perfectly happy to dance with your other friends. I'd guess either:
a) he is crazy about you and is afraid of being unable to control himself in the boyparts department
b) he is crazy about you, is well aware that you have been told and dont feel the same and is saving face
c) if people have been coming up to you telling you he likes you is it possible they might be doing the same to him in order to be "helpful" and match-make? (some people have a nasty habit of this). If so he may have no feelings for you at all, thinks you have feelings for him and is doing his best not to hurt you and staying as unromantic as possible.
Hope you solve that little mystery. Try dropping lightly and jokingly into conversation that people have been saying he likes you and watch his reaction.
Blushes or random splutterings= I love you and want your babies.
Laughing easily and unself-conciously= untrue but we have a comfortable enough friendship for it not to bother me.
him saying "I heard the same about you!"= He heard the same about you.
good luck x
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