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My name is Chelsea Lynn but everyone calls me Glamour. I chose Tragic Glamour as my name because its been my name on myspace for over a year and i came up with it as a clothing line name 2 years ago and thought it was beautiful. Tragic: for the tragedy and pain you feel throughout your life that makes you stronger and survive through this life. Glamour: because Glamour is a way of life, beauty, fashion and a constant popularity contest we almost always seem to be in and rarely win. It makes us weak but builds us up in the same breath.
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advice

I'm eighteen years old, and female.

This morning, I just had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was allright during, and it was fully consentual, but now, several hours later, I can't shake this feeling of guilt.

My question is, is it common to feel guilty after a sexual act? If there's any advice that you can offer, I would appreciate it. I'm feeling ashamed of myself and I don't want to let my boyfriend touch me sexually ever again, and I really want things to be the same as they were before.

It is totally normal. Question though.. Have you talked to your boyfriend since? A lot of times people feel guilty for the reason that they think it will be different between the two of you after. Give it time and act like nothings changed. Eventually it will feel like nothing has changed. If that doesn't work, you might wanna talk it out with your bf. But I think it will get better for you soon.

Good luck sweetheart

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