askdeathwillcome
advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: Ok well to start with im 13 and never had a boyfriend. Alot of boys have asked me out but they told me it was a dare. So really not one guy has asked me out. Well at school I really like these guys but everytime I try to talk to them about it I get all scared and back out. So my questions are, what should I do about my fear of talking to the guys I like about how I fell? Is there something wrong with me since not one guy has asked me out for real? And can I do to find out if a guy likes me or not?

--->loves luvsu
For one, you need to realize that it isn't bad that you haven't had a boyfriend...you are only 13 ya know... Now, for your fear of talking to boys, you don't have to tell them, but if you want to...just do it! Don't let yourself have second thoughts. If you are walking over to talk to one of them, don't let yourself stop and talk to a friend or look at something else, look at him and do what you came for. Again I will tell you, there isn't anything wrong with you, you just haven't found the right guy...or he hasn't found you. Besides, the true guy for you will not think of you by your looks, but by your personality. If you look great, then they will like you for your looks and personality. I can't really tell you what to do about finding who likes you, it is kind of hard. I guess you could watch for guys flirting with you, but other than that, I don't know. It isn't like you can go to a website and ask it who likes you and it will name out every name...I can't help you there. Besides, when you are supposed to know who likes you, you will. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open.

thanks.

bio
deathwillcome
Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!

Info
E-mail:
Gender:
Female

Location:
Salt Lake City Utah

Occupation:
school (student)

Age:
17

Member Since:
July 3, 2005

Answers:
304

Last Update:
August 22, 2010

Visitors:
26958

Main Categories:





Favorite Columnists







layout by Adam Particka

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop

eXTReMe Tracker