For one, you need to realize that it isn't bad that you haven't had a boyfriend...you are only 13 ya know... Now, for your fear of talking to boys, you don't have to tell them, but if you want to...just do it! Don't let yourself have second thoughts. If you are walking over to talk to one of them, don't let yourself stop and talk to a friend or look at something else, look at him and do what you came for. Again I will tell you, there isn't anything wrong with you, you just haven't found the right guy...or he hasn't found you. Besides, the true guy for you will not think of you by your looks, but by your personality. If you look great, then they will like you for your looks and personality. I can't really tell you what to do about finding who likes you, it is kind of hard. I guess you could watch for guys flirting with you, but other than that, I don't know. It isn't like you can go to a website and ask it who likes you and it will name out every name...I can't help you there. Besides, when you are supposed to know who likes you, you will. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open.
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