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Hey everyone! My name is Kristen, I'm 20 and I'm a college junior studying pharmacy. I've been blessed with a really good life, and part of the reason for that is because I've learned to see GOOD in everything that happens to me. I love giving advice, and I've been told that I do a good job at it, but I'll let you decide! Feel free to ask me anything... don't be shy, that's why I'm here. I've been through a lot... moving from one country to another, leaving and finding new friends, break ups, boys, middle school, high school, college, self esteem issues... pretty much most things that people need help with.
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okay well this is the deal.
im ready to have sex i know i am. im with a boy right now and we've decided that were going to do it. im just really nervous cuz im not on birth control and im scared something is like going to happen to the condom, like rip. i told him that i was nervous and asked him that whenever he felt like he was going to bust he would take it out and then put it back it when he stopped ..
is that a god idea and if your not on birth control and you use a condom is it most likely you can get pregnant or is like 1 in every 500 people?
please comment back asap !! thank you !!
i've read in a couple of magazines that condoms are about 97% effective IF and ONLY IF they are used correctly!! so of course there is a little chance that you could get pregnant even when you use one... but that's just a responsibility that comes along with having sex! if you're not ready to face something like a pregnancy and its consequences, then you are not ready to have sex! And there's nothing wrong with that, you have plenty of time... not to mention that sex doesn't even feel good when you are constantly paranoid and all you're thinking about is getting pregnant! don't let any guy pressure you... when you are ready, you will know and you won't have ANY doubts!
(Rating: 5) thanks !!