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Ive been through alot in my short life and feel I can anwser just about anything and I hope my advice helps you out.
I thought this would be a good idea because Im the one everyone calls when they have a problem so I figured I would spread the love.
Ive taken many courses in psychology during my college courses if that helps any.
Just to make it clear my advice is what I think is best but you have to judge for yourself on what you believe to be the best thing to do in your sitation.
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(15/f) whenever i am friends with a guy/or become friends with a guy i always seem to end up liking them or at least consider a crush. its like i cant just have a guy whos a friend that i dont end up liking. even guys that are just nice to me or smile at me, i just start to think about them all the time and maybe its because i've never had a real boyfriend so i jump to conclusions/get overly excited about a guy being nice. i dont know how to fix this becuase it causes me to like alot of guys but not like just crushes and i hate having to think about all these different people and decide who i actually lik and who i jus think are fun to flirt with. please help i want a guyfriend who i dont think about as a boyfriend!
Maybe you start likeing them because them showing interest in you is flattering. We are all like that, we like to have attention payed to us. Each time you start to like one of your guyfriends as more than a friend think to yourself why you are likeing him. If its just because he is giving you attention and may like you then tell yourself that and try to understand what you want in a boyfriend and what seperates them from just a malefriend. Hopefully it will help you.
(Rating: 5) thanx i think thats ture too!