hey! im a 16 yr old female from south east wisconsin. i been thru quite a bit of stuff and i have problems of my own...who doesnt have problems right? well anyways talkin is my thing. i kno that i love to have sum1 to just spill my heart out to whether im really close with them or not. if u have anything u want to ask me about pretty much anything feel free to. im always gonna be here if u need some help on something so juss give me a buzz....~!~xoxo~!~
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My girlfriend(17years old) has been raped by three different people. She only trusts me and hasnt got the confidence to tell anybody else. This means that the responsibility is down to me to give her my own sort of counseling service. I'm not really sure as to what to do apart from help her get it all out. Please could somebody give me some tips on more counselling advice? It would be much appreciated.thankyou x (link)
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she really should go to the police as soon as possible. if they know right away there is more they can do. if she waits too long (up to 5 years i think) she is over the statue of limitations and there is NOTHING the police will be able to do to put the men who raped her behind bars. the men who did it deserve to have their junk cut off and the only way they will get some sort of punishment is if you and her go to the police. offer to go to the police with her...but when you talk to her about going...just tell her you want her to go to the police so the men who did it cant do it to anybody else. rape is one of the most horrible crimes out there. i dont know how i would deal with it if it happened to me but the police need to be notified of the situation and your friend needs to get medically examined. the rapists could have done more damage than what you think. if they didnt use condoms. she could get STD's or she could get pregnant. please try to talk her into going to the police. if she doesnt want to...you should tell the police. yea she may get mad at you at first but in the end she will thank you for it because she will get the counseling she needs and the medical attention...plus you'd be doing women all over a huge favor. dont let what happened to your friend happen to other women too. good luck and my sympathy to your friend. hope i helped you out.
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Thankyou for your answer, i appreciate the time that went into it. obviously you feel strongly against what has happened. I will take it into consideration. Thanks again x tasha x
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