hey! im a 16 yr old female from south east wisconsin. i been thru quite a bit of stuff and i have problems of my own...who doesnt have problems right? well anyways talkin is my thing. i kno that i love to have sum1 to just spill my heart out to whether im really close with them or not. if u have anything u want to ask me about pretty much anything feel free to. im always gonna be here if u need some help on something so juss give me a buzz....~!~xoxo~!~
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when my bf is 18 i will be turning 17 5 months later. it sounds not a big of a deal but he doesnt want to give my parents a reason for him to stop talkin to me so he is plannin to break up with me until i turn 18. he still will be close friends with me but i just dont like the idea. can someone help. my mom doesnt like him and wont get to know him bc of his skin color she thinks she has my whole life planned for me. (link)
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tell your boyfriend that you dont like the idea. tell him you dont care what your mother thinks about him and that she has no control over your future and who you will be with. then you need to talk to your mother. i 100% support inter-racial dating. if i was you id tell your mom that you love him..(if you do) and that her opinion of him doesnt matter to you. and that even if she thinks she is going to control who you are with in the future she is dead wrong. tell her you are almost 17 years old and that you are more than capable of making the decision of who you want to date. she cant tell you who to love. my parents tried the same thing but i didnt let their crap work. i dated who i loved. and eventually they grew to understand why i loved him and just how much i did. needless to say he and i didnt work out but thats a different story:P but really you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him you dont like the idea of breaking up and stuff...if it comes down to it that your mother tries to make you guys break up even if you and him decide that you dont want to break up...and you really want to stay with him...in most states once you are 16 you can get emancipated. that is pretty much where you get a job and prove to the govt that you can support yourself. and you pretty much divorce your parents. you and your boyfriend could get an appartment and stay together.:P hope i helped you out in some way or another. good luck. best wishes to you and your boyfriend
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