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I am 13 and have never had a bf. All of my friends laugh at me behind my back. I found this out after we had a school dance a couple of nights ago. I danced with this one senior who is kind of on the geeky side, but he's a really nice guy. He's also the only guy who asked me to dance, all the guys in my class don't really like me. Well I found out from one of my nicer friends that all these girls that I thought were my friends were laughing at me at the dance and saying that Lee (the guy I danced with ) was the only guy I could get. They were also laughing and saying what a geek I was for never having a bf.
I was really hurt and felt like crying. Since when is it a crime to have never had a bf? I know girls a lot older than me that arent dating.
What should I do?
First, realize that you're perfectly normal. You're only 13. I never had a boyfriend at that age either. I don't know why all of these girls are in such a rush to grow up.
Besides, none of your girls have had REAL boyfriends yet themselves. Holding hands in the hallways doesn't count (I mean lord...they can't even get into an R movie yet nor can they drive!). You can tell them that next time they want to laugh at you for being a normal 13 year old girl.
And honey, they're probably jealous that an older boy danced with you. ;) He certainly won't be the last. There is nothing wrong with you and they're incredibly immature and mean to laugh at you for such a stupid reason.
It's a hard age and kids will do anything it takes to fit in. Let what they say go in one ear and out the other.
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thankyou for being so nice! It really helps!
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