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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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Well like 3 weeks ago i told this boy i liked him alot. Ive liked him since july so quite a long time. At the time i told him he told me he had a girlfriend i was like ohk. Well like a week later that realtionship was over. But he hasnt told mee yet. I had found out by a friend. Im just wondering has he not told me because he has no interest in me or he isnt over his ex yet?
--We go to the same church and thats the only time i really see him we dont talk alot at church we talk alot more online.

--HE was standing right next to me at chruch and all i wanted to do was hug him but i didnt.
--what do you think i should do? I dont want to sound desperate so dont tell me to tell him that its ruining me or anything i dont love him, i like him alot.

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This isn't really an answer, but something to think about. Usually, when a guy wants to ask a girl out, he makes sure she knows he and his girlfriend broke up.

If you seriously want to find out more about this whole thing, ask how his recent ex is doing.

I personally think that right now you should strive for more of a friendship with him than a relationship. You've given him a couple of months to ask you out now, and he hasn't done anything. Let him see you as a friend, and gradually allow feelings to develop. If it never moves past friendship, well, friendship is forever... and you didn't waste your time chasing one guy who wasn't interested in you.

EDIT: Three weeks is still enough time to ask you out, and if he was interested, he'd jump on any chance to ask you out.

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(Rating: 4) hes only knew ive liked him for 3 weeks not a couple months.
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