No, I really don't think you should. It doesn't seem like your boyfriend cares about you at all, it sounds like he is trying to take advantage of your youth. If he really loved you he wouldn't say, "If you don't have sex with me I'm going to break-up with you." He should understand that you aren't ready and that you don't want to.
Yes, it is illegal, but your mother would have to press charges against him for anything of consequence to happen. I had sex with my ex while we were illegal, but I was also ready.

If you don't feel comfortable with sex and you don't believe you are ready then you should let your boyfriend know that and if he breaks-up with you then he really didn't love you to begin with. When you really love someone you are willing to wait on them no matter how long it takes. Truthfully your boyfriend sounds like a jerk and I think you need to get rid of him, but you do whatever makes you happy.

Hope I Helped.

Thank you for telling the right thing to do! I can't believe I was ever that stupid. I said no and he went away just like everybody said would happen. And he loved me so much that three days later he was having sex with one of my friends. It worked out because I found a very nice guy. Thanks again!

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