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I have a boyfriend and he is really nice. He is always very sweet and considerate of me. He has made it clear that he really likes me alot and I like him too.

He sounds really outgoing on the phone, but then at school he is so nervous, he can barely talk to me. My friends and I get the feeling that he thinks I'm really popular and experienced which actually, I'm not. So on instant messenger he kept saying, "Were going to make on on Monday and school" and he always calls me "babe" on the phone or computer. But then at school, he is so nervous around me.

So, is he a jerk, or just one really nervous insecure kid?

I have no clue why you would think that he's a jerk.
He's just a regular guy that can't speak when he sees a pretty girl. It happens. Girls aren't the only one's to act scared and nervous. You should just try to loosen him up. Act stupid so that he sees its ok. Make him feel like you won't judge him and it's ok to mess up. And most guys seem to like when the girl makes the first move. So try to kiss him out of the blue when he least expects it. I'm sure he will be stunned and will feel better about him self.
Hope I helped
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