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I am 17 years old and have never had a bf. People in my senior class make fun of me behind my back because of this. I even heard one rumour that I was a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian, I do like guys but I'm really shy and most of the guys in my class are really immature and just want sex, not a meaningful relationship. I've also made the decision not to have sex, or make love until I get married. Some of the girls in my class have slept with over 14 guys, and act like it's no big deal. Sometimes I get so depressed I feel like crying. The fact that tomorrows Valentines day is just going to make me feel worse. Do things ever get any easier for girls like me? Or does it just get worse when I go to college and into the work force? I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only person left with values. (link)
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aw, i'm sorry that people are so stupid. just let it all roll off your shoulders and realize that you are going to be the one better off in the end. you are going to be the one who, when you do have a relationship, it will be better than any of theirs because you are waiting for something real. you will never feel used as much as they have, whether they admit it or not. you will have a working marriage, while many of them will get divorced. be proud.
as for making things easier tomorrow, don't think of it as a day for couples, it is just a day for LOVE. love for your family, love for your friends..do you have any pets? cause its a time for love for them too. just focus on it that way and you will love it!!
and i have the same values as you, so don't feel alone. my last boyfriend broke up with me because of my beliefs and i am so glad i held onto them because..that's obviously all he was there for! so, don't let go of them and you will be glad. =).
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