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This guy that I really like in my senior class has been dating this girl who behind his back makes fun of him. He is so in love with her, he'll buy her a dozen roses for no occasion and bring them to school for her. I also heard he spent hundreds of dollars on a bracelet for her birthday. I know what she's been saying behind his back because she's in my french class. The other girls wanted to see her new bracelet and she just rolled her eyes and said "this is the THIRD one he's bought me"!. She is such a superficial bitch. She's also said she's only with him because his family has money. She's also a bigot, I've heard her making derogatory comments about homosexuals and african americans. I also heard she's cheating on him. I don't know what he sees in her. She is very popular and pretty, but has the personality and kindness of a dead squid. He would be heartbroken if he knew what she said about him and did behind his back. He is such a nice guy, I feel sorry for him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut? Or, before I forget, HIS friends make fun of him behind his back for how hard he's fallen for her. (link)
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I basically agree with WiseAl on this one. If this guy does eventually figure out for himself what she's doing and then realises you knew all along and didnt tell him you'll lose his friendship anyway.
Again, definately go with the proof if you can, then lay out the facts for him telling him that whatever he chooses to do about it you'll accept and still want to be there for him. Chances are if he's fallen hard for this chick he'll explain away any evidence you give him and stay with her anyway- love is blind, deaf and bloody stupid at times- and if you want to stay his friend you'll have to accept that without bitching and just wait for the inevitable, then pick up the pieces. At least you won't have appeared to have been yet another person conspiring behind his back.
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