I look like my mother in this picture...is that a good thing?! Lol.
I often feel like I have been through far too much for my age. I've battled depression (several times), emotionally abusive relationships, men walking all over me, an eating disorder and a suicide attempt and I still pulled through. And if I can then you can too.
I'm a great listener, so feel free to ask me anything, I WILL reply to you. Be warned though, my advice is very blunt and I'll say exactly what I think! But then 9 times out of 10 people need to hear the truth rather than be wrapped in cotton wool!
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I really hate saying this and even admitting to myself that I have feelings with the same sex as me...a girl..not really a girl but a boyish one. Maybe i started to like her because she's really a caring person and is sensitive to other's feelings. When we talk, I feel as if my problems would go away and feel alighted. But then the problem is aside from the gender, she does have a relationship with another girl. I don't know when she think that i might have feelings for her but she did at one time. When she somewhat think, she showered me with many attention..but I think with my head than my heart, I know it's wrong so I kind of avoided her. When she talks to me, I don't have the same enthusiasm as before. By what I did she maybe realize that she "mistakenly" interpret my feelings. There was a time I really avoided her. but when she was absent I had a tantrum and I miss her. This is wrong I know it. That's why I wish people could help me on what should I do..I think avoiding is not a solution. Saying it either is a big mistake. (link)
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Don't forget there is different levels of feeling for someone of the same sex. I'm straight but I am attracted to girls - I even slept with one once! But I know I'm not bisexual because I simply don't really wish to repeat the experience. By all means experiment with this girl if she feels the same (though maybe not while she has a gf). Experimentation is pretty much the only way that you'll get to know your true self, and remember - there's nothing at all wrong with the way you feel about her. If you're a lesbian or bisexual it's in your genes anyway so there's nothing you can do about it. Just enjoy life and enjoy who you are...
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Thank you for answering..it really helps..I do know I'm not bi or a lesbian. I'm not like that that's why i feel so bad when I had this feelings for this girl..
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