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I really hate saying this and even admitting to myself that I have feelings with the same sex as me...a girl..not really a girl but a boyish one. Maybe i started to like her because she's really a caring person and is sensitive to other's feelings. When we talk, I feel as if my problems would go away and feel alighted. But then the problem is aside from the gender, she does have a relationship with another girl. I don't know when she think that i might have feelings for her but she did at one time. When she somewhat think, she showered me with many attention..but I think with my head than my heart, I know it's wrong so I kind of avoided her. When she talks to me, I don't have the same enthusiasm as before. By what I did she maybe realize that she "mistakenly" interpret my feelings. There was a time I really avoided her. but when she was absent I had a tantrum and I miss her. This is wrong I know it. That's why I wish people could help me on what should I do..I think avoiding is not a solution. Saying it either is a big mistake.

first off... I personally dont think its a wrong thing at all. Who are other ppl to tell u that its wrong to feel some type of way for a person. I dont think that you should avoid her, it would just make things harder the next time you see her. Tell her how you feel... everything has to start there. Its going to be hard to start off.. but youll feel better at the end.

Email me sometime if you wanna talk about it!

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(Rating: 5) thank you for your advice..it really helps..but I think i'd rather not tell her. I'm not a lesbian or bi I know because it's just now that I have this feeling. That's why I feel bad..I do hope you could tell me what else to do...thank you.

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