I look like my mother in this picture...is that a good thing?! Lol.
I often feel like I have been through far too much for my age. I've battled depression (several times), emotionally abusive relationships, men walking all over me, an eating disorder and a suicide attempt and I still pulled through. And if I can then you can too.
I'm a great listener, so feel free to ask me anything, I WILL reply to you. Be warned though, my advice is very blunt and I'll say exactly what I think! But then 9 times out of 10 people need to hear the truth rather than be wrapped in cotton wool!
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First off, I've been single for a really long time. Last week I met a really great guy. I have really high expectations and he met almost every one of them. Anyway, I know I kinda brought it upon myself but I sent him one of those typical surveys about "what you would do" and "do you like me" types of things. He marked that he wanted a fling with me but not an actual relationship. Should I go for the fling, do what a I want and have a valentine this year or just stay friends and be alone for a really long time? If it helps, I go to an all girls high school & see guys.. never. I'm 15 & female. thanks! (link)
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Well I went to an all-girls school too, so I can completely relate to how you feel, it really sucks huh? Flings are fine at that age, but it depends on how far you're willing to take it. I mean I doubt you'd be ready to have sex with a guy you've only known for a week, but unfortunately most guys see no-strings sex as a definition of a fling. You won't be alone for a really long time, but I can understand that you want to grab this chance while you have it as boys are a bit thin on the ground in your school! My advice? By all means have a fling but never do anything you're not comfortable with. This boy will certainly not be the last one you meet, so save yourself for someone special.
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