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Q: my friend's boyfriend has been harassing me since last year. He keeps doing things to my locker such as smashing a banana on it, putting tape all over, writing all over it, leaving long notes, putting signs with names such as boob girl or b***h etc. He would also spread all these rumors about me and call me all of these names. when my friend tells him to stop he refuses and he said that he wants to hurt me. she wants to protect her boyfriend from being suspended and she is trying to stop me from telling the GLC. He has been doing the same things to other people but they are too afraid of him to speak up. I really want to tell the GLC and take action but would I be doing the right thing by doing that even if I probably won't be friends with her anymore? also, I know that the GLC won't believe me since I don't have enough evidence to prove what he is doing to me. what should I do in this situation?
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Look it may come to the point, where he may want to physically hurt you. You have to think of your own safety, and honestly, a true friend (no matter how blinded by love she may be) would not put you in such a position. She obviously chose his side, and you need to worry about protecting yourself. If she accuses you of being a bad friend or whatnot, you tell her write back that she's the one not being the good friend, because it sounds to me that if the roles were reversed, you would try to put a stop to your boyfriend's harassing.
I hope I was of some help, please remember to always do what's in your heart. Good Luck!
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Hey everyone, so it's been a while since the last time I was on here...A LOT has happened w/ my life. But I am back, and I'm here to help as always. So any questions I can help you with, please don't hesitate to ask, I will answer them all as honestly as possible, and if I can't answer something I will tell you that I can't, I will NOT give you false information or lead you on.
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