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Ok, so I have been going out with this guy for almost a month, but it feels like it has been longer becasue of certian things. I mean we have been like best friends since 6th grade and we madeout before going out, so it's not like we started out as slow as some people might. He's still really good friends with his ex, I mean I'm friends with her too and I'm also good friends with my ex, but I get jealous of his relationship with her, and I'm not usually a jealous person. I don't know how to say anything to him, or to her, because it's a werid subject for me, and to top things off the only person that I can really talk to about with, or have really talk to about it at all with, is my ex. How do I say something without sounding like a girlfriend who reads too much into things and worries too much? (link)
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By admitting that you have insecurities like anyone else and letting him reassure you. Seriously not a big deal if you bring it up in a non-accusing way. Pretty much everyone gets all paranoid at some point where relationships are concerned (i hope...otherwise i'm really weird) and if you're in a good relationship you'll support each other, maybe make an extra effort with them when that person's around for a while.
God knows I get jealous about my boyfriends girl-friends and considering the amount of guy friends i have that makes me a complete hypocrite- it's not rational, just relationship instincts.
Congratulations, you're normal!
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thanks, i guess it is pretty normal.
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