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Ok im 14, 15 in 2 weeks, is it normal that i still hwear a 34A? Everyone of my friends has bigger boobs than i do and when im around them i feel like i dont belong and when were around guys they arent looking at me just because i dont have big boobs. Are they just taking longer to grow. or have i stopped growing and this is how theyre going to stay?
Thanks. =]
At your age, it's hard to say for sure if your breast size will increase. It certainly is possible that you will continue to grow; however, it's also possible that you may be destined to be a 34A.
I know that it's difficult when your friends have bigger chests and get more boy attention because of it, but getting ogled by boys because of your boobs isn't all it's cracked up to be. Your larger chested friends might be getting more looks, but that doesn't mean they'll be getting more boyfriends or having more relationships.
The thing to remember is that there is nothing more attractive than a girl who is confident with her body (no matter it's shape or size). You may not be blessed with large boobs, but I'm sure there are other things you have been blessed with. Don't concentrate on what you don't have, take a good look at yourself and focus on what you DO like about you.
When I was your age I waited and waited and waited to "get" my boobs and in my case, 34A was as big as they ever got. I won't try to tell you that it didn't bum me out quite a bit when I was younger, but truly it never was that big of a deal. You are lucky in that these days there are lots of cute tops, camisols and specialty bras that really help accentuate the smaller chested body.
The bottom line is that in the grand scheme of things, smaller boobs don't really have the negative effect on your life that it seems like they will. Be positive about yourself, be proud of your body and no matter what size your boobs end up being you'll be happy. Best of luck to you.
Kind wishes,
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot. =]