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Hey everyone,
Usually i dont come here unless it's a TOTAL emergency--sadly this is one of those times. My brother, Dustin is in love with this girl, Samantha. Now, my brother lives in Lousiville, TX and she lives in Houston (it's 6 hours away). But Dustin dosent do long distance relationships because he cant see her in real life, he cant kiss her, he cant hold her, etc. So he feels that he cant go out with her. Now, Samantha and her best friend told him that Dustin is Samantha's only reason to live, and she'll probably kill herself without Dustin. So Dustin, NEVER cries--and he's crying. Dustin tried to cut himself last night, but couldnt because his blade wasnt sharp. So i ask of you all, wtf should we all do? I mean, it's a life or death situation for both of them, and i dont want ANYONE dying here, so it's really hard for me to figure this out on my own. If anyone can help me,or anything to help me with, Please reply and/or IM me on AOL/AIM at silverwolf1561. Thankyou, SO much!
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some of the answers you got i was not happy with.
"Does he think that 'being selfish' enuff to "Kill Himself" is going to solve anything ? Has he even thought of how that will make Sam feel, or the greif he will cause your Family over this..for that matter ? He sounds like he is looking for Attention, and if Sam is not there, he surely is 'getting all the attention' he is calling out for."
you might have had the same reaction. selfish enough? looking for attention?
it seems to me that he is so upset over this that he may not be thinking clearly. does he know that you know everything? try talking to him. she may or may not be serious, but, yes, tell him that if he cares for her, he should realize that killing himself will only cause her more pain and that the only way to keep her around to eventually feel better will be to live. also, remind him of everyone else who cares for him. remind him of how your family and his friends will feel..just has the person about said.
try talking to him right away and keep an eye on him. if you are absolutely positive that he is okay, then just watch him. but you should really tell your parents no matter what. they should also know to keep an eye on him and he may even need therapy.
he'll get through this. i'm sorry that you are so scared, with good reason.
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