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my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!!

its not abuse, your dad just takes out all your anger on you. My dad the same thing, but i hit him back so he stoppes. If he continues to do it hit him back, that will let him know that you wont take it anymore. At first, he might hit you harder or whatever, but if you keep up with it and keeping fighting back then he will eventually stop.

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