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Ok, skip the whole. "oh my god, you are so stupid for breaking his heart" stuff. I just need help, I know what I did was wrong.

Ok, first off. I'm trying to get my ex back. I dumped him for another guy, who turned out to be an ass, and i realized what i did was wrong. i miss him a lot and i would do anything to have him back. I have talked to him about this before and he said it was not going to work out. since then we have been good friends, but now im starting to like him again, and he knows. he told me to call him on december 23rd when he gets new minutes on his phone so we can talk about it and i can tell him why i want him back so badly. he is afraid to get back together because he doesn't want me to break his heart again, and i swore on my life i wouldnt. because i won't. i just really miss him and like i dont know if he wants me back or not. im not afraid to call him, just afraid that its going to be a blunt "NO" answer. but why would he make me wait that long for a simple "NO"?

If anyone can help, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you! i give 5s if anyone helps me.

well, if he wants you to call him and talk to him about it then he obviously is not going to give you a blunt no answer. he probably does still like you and even though your scared to call him you have to because if you don't then he will think you didn't mean it and will make things even worse with him. When you do call him, make you sure you tell him how much you like him and why. Also, be sure to tell him that you made a huge mistake in leaving him and that you wish you never had. well, i hope this helps you.

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