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Okay, my boyfriends name is Michael, and we've been dating now for almost 2 months. I haven't even hugged him yet! We've cuddled & held hands, but I've never actually gone up and gave him a hug. And I've never done anything with him after that. Today I hugged one of my really good guy friends, and Michael found out about it, and now he's all pissed @ me because I've done more with my best guy friend, then I have with him, supposebly. I don't want him to hate me, but he just signed off of AIM & I'm seriously SAD! He said we can't be together if I don't quit flirting with my best friend. ): Please help!
well first off, it's normal to "do" more things with your best guy friend then with your boyfriend..see this reminds me of an experience i went through..see i was going out with this guy devin and had been like 2-3 months and all me and him did was hold hands and thats it..but i had this best friend joel and me and him like hugged everytime we saw each other and it felt like devin was jealous..see my thing was i dont know why exactly but i felt more comfotable hugging joel then i did with devin cause i was nervous.. if this is some what close to what your feeling just tell your boy friend that you are nervous with him because you like him so much but yet with your guy friend you dont feel the same because you don't like him like that...just kind of explain it like that and if he still rejects you and what ever leave him..i know you don't want to but if he gets jealous over you hugging your guy friend even when you explain it then he isn't worth your time because he doesn't want to give you the time of day type of thing...well i hope i have helped good luck byebye
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Thats EXACTLY what I'm going through. I just feel really shakey & nervous around him, but when I hug my best guy friend, it's just like normal, thanks so much. You helped BIG TIME. ♥
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