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Ive been going with this guy. Its been on and off every week or so. And a little later we always go out again. I always end up crying. Hes so overprotected i hate it. He controls me. But hes so sweet. I love him so much. We recently had an arguement about 'flirting'. We broke up. I ended up crying again. If i were giving myself advice i would say get over him, i admit it. But i cant. I try, but everytime he asks for a second chance i say yes. I cant get enough of him. Love is hell. I dont know what to do anymore. What do i do?? Im crying and miserable. I would kill myself right now =( please dont be mean or tell me to get over him because i just cant =( i wish i could but no matter what i always end up getting back together with him. If you tell me to forget about him i wont rate you high Sorry but ive tried everyway to get over him. If you say it tell me how :S Anything else would be great like what to say to him =( Im really sad right now What do i do? PLEASE HELP, Im desperate ='(
Well, atleast your honest about the fact that you cannot get over him. Anyway though...I guess love is painful sometimes and we have to take risks and sacrifices. Tell him you still have feelings and that even all the miserable OFF times don't take away from the wonderful feelings of when you guys are ON. Just tell him your gut feelings and how you need to be with him. Tell him you want to have one more shot with him. Even if you feel in your heart if you guys broke up you'd still say yes the next time, don't let him know that. Let him think this next time is precious as gold and that if he messes up once it's "over". It'll make him more cautious and stuff. I think that would be your best bet.
If I were you, I would try to get over it, and you have. You've done what you could do. Now all I wish I could do was help you be happier because I know love can be TORTURE. But for every bad season there's another good one on it's way. Hang tight and things are bound to get better whether it's gonna be tomorrow, a week, or 6 monthes. Good Luck!!
(Rating: 5) OMG thank you sooo much!! Thats the best advice ive ever gotten. THANKS SOO MUCH!!