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Q: lately my bff has been getting on my nerves. everything i like, she has to like too. but evrything i cant do, she makes a huge point that she can do it. and every time i like a guy she always decides she likes him a couple days after i tell her i like him. and theres other little things but enough of them to make me want to scream! i will rate 5s 4 good answers!
Well I'm gonna say what adults told me when I was little. *sigh* It might not make you feel any better (It didnt when it was told to me) But it's almost always true, and it'll explain why your best friend has been acting the way she does.

"When someone copies you, they envy you"

So I believe that when she makes the point that she can do something that you can do, she wants to be like you. I think the same goes for your crushes.
Since you two are friends, she obviously likes you for who you are.. and I think some part of her wants to be just like you.
I really really do think that you should bring this up with her. If you two are best friends, then I can't see why you can't talk about it. But the way I'd tell her if I was you (which I'm not) if to bring it up casually in a conversation.. face to face if you can help it.

Well good luck to you and your friend.. Hope I helped!! -Ce

Thank you! I will bring this up to her!

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HELLOOOO! I go by the name CE and I love to give advice. I give almost everyone I know advice and it seems to go well.. be comfortable about asking me any question at all. Don't let my age thow you off, I know what I'm talking about. It seems like most of the time, I have a reasonable answer, and sometimes they are reeaally looong. I like to talk! Sometimes, I think it's all I ever do!

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