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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f (link)
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If you don't know if you can be comfortable around him (and bloody rightly so in my opinion) get rid of him. I'm sorry but there is no excuse in the world for what he did-anyone who cares about you would stop if he saw you in pain and definately when you told him to. Fair enough guys can be clumsy creatures especially in bed but ignoring your tears and not letting you wash, for christ sake, is controlling and cruel.
To be honest this sounds like the tip of a pretty nasty iceberg. If he thinks he has the right to do what he wants to you just four months in to a sexual relationship what's he going to be like in 4 years?
Talk to him about it if you like but even just from what you've said here I really advise you to get out now before it goes too far.
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Thanks. I just really don't knwo what caused it though--it just came out of no where
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