I live in Central Wisconsin. I am married and we have two daughters. In 1997 I earned my degree in psychology from the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point. In my spare time I study psychology and philosophy.
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Age: 35
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Last year, I was a freshman at a boarding school. I had many friends mainly because I refused to be very confrontational. I let things "slide". The only girl that had gotten in a slight fight with me had unjust animosity towards me.
This year, as a sophomore, I decided I wasn't going to take shit from anyone. My friends walked all over me last year(example: I asked my best friend to talk to this guy about how I had a huge crush on him and she gave him a blow job instead). I've sorta isolated myself from a lot of the steriotypical social interaction and cept a few good friends.
There is one girl who I was very good friends with last year and this year after all the back stabbing she did, I decided I didnt like her. And slowly, Im realising how arrogant and self absorbed she is. I stopped hanging out with her and eventually, I really just stopped talking to her. She asked why I was mad at her, and I bluntly told her I didnt like her because I didn't think that it would be right not to say that to her face.
She recently has been very whorish and got in trouble for getting drunk and passing out/throwing up on a "duty person" in her dorm. So on xanga, I called her a drunk colombian whore (shes colombian). Its one place where I feel I can speak what I think. I've gotten the nastiest comments about it.
Was all of this wrong of me to do? (link)
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I think you did the right thing. If your ex-friend is an arrogant, self-absorbed, backstabbing, drunk Columbian whore, then you clearly have every right to abandon and humiliate her. I'm especially impressed that you've overcome your habit of "letting things slide." People aren't going to walk all over you anymore--now that you've shown them what sort of person you are. It took a lot of guts for you to tell your friend you don't like her anymore and then call her names on your Xanga. Backstabbing sluts don't deserve your respect, and you were wise to break off the friendship. I especially like how you made a public display of your loathing. Now your classmates all know who they're fucking with.
I'm sure no one will give you shit anymore. Or the time of day. And you wondered why you got nasty comments...
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This wasnt advice, this was just critisism of free expression.
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