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Okay hi,
I`m a 16 yr old female..
Alright this has all been taken care of but i don`t know what to do bout somethings..
here i`ll start with what has happened.. I got raped three times by the same guy over the summer..Yes i`ve tooken care of him and he`s doin 21 yrs thank god plus he admitted to it..
But i`m havin diffculties with sleeping,Yea i thought that shit only happened in movies where you feel he`s by you and what not but No its happenin to me.. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he tries to talk to me at night as long as possible but that doesn`t change how i feel after i get off the phone with him.. This might sound stupid but the only time i sleep good is with my boyfriend on weekends its like i use him to put me to sleep i mean Yes i`ve tried sleeping pills,reading and i`ve counted sheep and everything else there is to count.. i don`t know what to do i`m so tired in school and my grades are goin down horribly.. i seen a doctor to talk to about it but i don`t think that helped.. i mean this guy already took my trust and everything else away.. i mean he don`t need my sleep too.. so if you can give me advice in anything or how to deal with it better ill rate high and give advice.. (link)
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Okay, I know you think this is bullcrap, but you probably still feel scared about him being around, subconciously, you know? It's normal for rape victims in real life situations.
I'm surprised that the sleeping pills don't work. Were they prescription pills? The reason you probably sleep better with your boyfriend is because you feel safe and protected.
I'm very sorry about what happened. No one deserves to be violated like that. I personally think that guy should never be let out to rape more women.
I wish you good luck!
!~*becca*~!
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