About me, hhmmm. I guess I would have to say that my favorite thing in the world is my family. They are my inspiration in all that I do. My 2nd favorite thing is POKER. I love helping people. I love poetry. I love horror films, comedies, and the occasional "chick flick". I find myself liking anything the critic's hate and hating what they love. I like listening to alternative music. My favorite bands are The White Stripes, The Gorillaz, and Eric Clapton. Know you may be wondering what makes me a love specialist? Well nothing really. All I know is that I keep my wife very happy and she tells me on a regular basis that I am the best man she has ever known. Her words not mine. Looking back I would have to say that I have never broken a women's heart. I would also have to say that I have been in love and in love with many times. It aggravates me to read questions from guys who are just trying to get into a girls pant. Sometimes I think I am the only 23-year-old with values and morals. I know that is not true though. I do feel I have a pretty good idea of what women want in men, and honestly any man can fit the description. Any man can be any women's type. I just think that some men show it better than others. Just so everyone knows I don't have a huge ego. I am actually really shy around women. I am kind of like an old football couch. I can't really play then game, but I do know how the game should be played.
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I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :) (link)
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you sure sound more mature than most 16 year olds i have met. i have to say that their is nothing stopping you. if you are 100% sure that this is a good thing with a good person i say go for it. just curious though. You have talked together and with friends, have you talked with you mother maybe? i know that most mothers would freak and i think that is too bad. my mother and i were best friends and i told her everything. maybe she could give you some insite on the topic, maybe point out some things you have failed to think of ((i can't imagine what)) Either way you sound like a cute couple and i think you should make a very special event out of it. a long personal date in a very romantic atmosphere... but i am a softy. Good luck
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aw, thank you. &no i haven't talked with my mother about it yet.
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