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this is pretty long but ill make it as short as i can..
anyway, i just started high school this year, and there is this guy named ken. i met him not too long ago, but we have become such good friends. we hang out a lot, tell each other a lot, and to be honest i started liking him... one day when we were hanging out we were sitting on our friends couch and he grabbed my hand and put his arm around me and stuff. it was really cute, and that day i really felt like he liked me.
a week and a half later or so, he starts dating this girl allison. i knew before he liked allison. but it didnt really matter.
so one day, we were talking about relationships and stuff and i told him what i liked in a guy and he told me "where were you before allison.. i liked you and im surprised to didnt see that." and ever since then, he always told me to keep liking him because he had feelings for me, but for allison as well. and if anything were to happen between allison and him, i was there, even though he really likes his allison.
well anyway, me and him talk ALOT like i said, were like best friends. now his girlfriend hates me and a bunch of her friends dislike me to cause they think im trying to steal ken from her. i know exactly how allison feels though.. if you had a b/f and he was with another girl all the time, wouldn't you be suspicious? and i dont know if i should just give up on ken or not.. i hate drama and i dont wanna be in the middle of it! but i dont wanna lose ken as a friend either.. (link)
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you don't need him. move on. not only are you making enemies..but even if you did go out with him..think about this.
what if he met another girl and did the same thing to you that he is doing to allison? if he's doing it now he'll most likely do it again.
find someone who likes you..and only you.
=).
you just said in your feedback that you are best friends. you can easily tell him that he has a girlfriend..and you aren't willing to be his back-up girl so you just want to stay good friends. then you just have to try to move on..
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i know exactly where your coming from. the problem is, me and ken are like BEST friends. and i dont wanna lose him as a friend eitherr.
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