I live in Central Wisconsin. I am married and we have two daughters. In 1997 I earned my degree in psychology from the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point. In my spare time I study psychology and philosophy.
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Age: 35
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Ok. Sp there is this guy I ave liked for four years. When we went to camp together for church. Me, my friend, and him all hung out together. We flirted and had the best time. When I asked him if he liked he said yes and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with me. Time passed and nothing happended except us becoming really good friends. I didnt want to say anything about it but i just let it go. We went to homecoming and prom twice together we had a blast. He always talks to me when he sees me and he will sit on my lap and pretend and like say hey baby or say how you doing in a way that is hilarious. Does he like me and is to afradi to date. I think about him all the time. By the way i am 18 and he is 17. We have never had a fight before either. (link)
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A few scenarios:
1. His affection is sincere almost to a fault: he likes you so much he's afraid to screw up your relationship by attempting romance.
2. He only wants you for a friend, but he's afraid if he tells you the truth, you will be hurt.
3. He never broke up with his girlfriend, or he did but then started dating someone else, and he's just stringing you along.
Obviously these aren't the only possibilities, but these might get you thinking in the right direction.
Dr. Chad
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