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There's this boy that I've known ever since 5th grade (we are in 9th grade) we are very close besides the fact that I NEVER SPENT TIME WITH HIM BESIDES SCHOOL!!! Yea we would talk on the phone, text and stuff but, I would LOVE to go somewhere with him one day but there are 2 problems:
1.) I am afraid that if I am alone with him, he might put the moves on me and we might have sex! (Only a kiss will do)
2.) I am afraid that if I go to the movies with him or something, that he might try and play me by taking me somewhere far, leaving me alone or embarrassing me.
What can I do to overcome my shyness and how do I explain to him that I am shy?
P.S. I gave him some excuses! I don't want to seem like a liar or that I don't want to be with him because I DO! it would be like a DATE or something.. My FIRST date! (link)
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if you really think he might do that, don't go out with him. If on the other hand you just generally think about the worst possible outcomes of every social event and worry about them (like me) then just comfort yourself with a backup plan. Arrange where to go beforehand and make sure your mum or someone can come and pick you up if you do for some unfathomable reason get stranded.
If you're close to him, just tell him you're shy and have never really done this before. do it with a smile and a nervous but happy expression and you'll just come off doubly cute.
Oh, and always remember- the use of the word "no" coupled with a sharp slap can work wonders.
Good luck
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U r right! I do think of all the worse possible outcomes first then the bad ones!! I am going to add you! I am rainbowNsunshine91
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