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to me, everytime a guy and me become close like almost to the point of g/f and b/f, i get like cold feet and i back out of the relationship. its not that i dont like the guy this is happening too, but its like i lead them on then i stop liking them once he likes me! i dont know whats wrong cuz in my head i have the perfect picture of me and the perfect guy as g/f and b/f but when the guy starts liking me, i back out. its like im afraid of commitment, but i know i want it. this is confusing but can anyone give me tips or advice to help me solve this?
btw im not talking about one guy really, im talking about them in general. =] (link)
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my friend is exactly the same way. once they like you its just like "omg..he actually likes me?" and you start to second guess if its the right thing. this might not be exactly the same for you..but what i'm about to say applies to you anyway. just next time you like someone don't second guess it. just go for it. if it doesn't work out..that's okay. don't worry about what will happen..just stay in the present. you could even write down everything you like about the guy you like and if he starts to like you, refer to the list..does he still have everything i liked about him before? most likely, he does. that will give you some extra confidence that you aren't making a mistake.
nothing in life is a mistake, because you learn from everything. it's just something else to grow from.
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aww that was so like inspiring! hah i will definitly try the list thing
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