I live in Central Wisconsin. I am married and we have two daughters. In 1997 I earned my degree in psychology from the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point. In my spare time I study psychology and philosophy.
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks (link)
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Since you two are mature enough to be intimate, you should be able to tell him you are having your period (you might choose a different word or phrasing-whatever you're comfortable with).
If he doesn't believe you, then he probably doesn't trust you, which isn't a good sign.
If you're not too grossed out by it, let him find out for himself that you're menstruating if he doesn't believe you. Let him find the pad or the string.
Be honsest with him. If you like what he does when you aren't getting your period, then tell him that at the same time you're telling him he can't do it tonight. Tell him you're looking forward to the next time.
Dr. Chad
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