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I'm like in tears trying soo hard not to cry so sorry if i mess up on any spelling or anything.
Heres some background:
Okay, like 14 years ago my mom had breast cancer. She survived and has been cancer free for about 12 years... My grandmother passed away from it in 2001 and many women in my family have died or have breastcancer in both sides of my family. Also my family has a sort of decisese that evreyone women on atleast my mom side of my family has that it makes lumps in your breasts and stuff.. Now the guys have that cancer related to breast cancer and my pappap has it but it too old (83) to get treatment..
What i need help on:
My mom went today to get a Passmere and that breast checkup thingy and seh said they drew blood work. When my dad got home they were talking about thing then my dads being like out of it and has been laying on the couch ever since he got homw itha blankey wrapped around him. And my mom, she looks horrible and my mom always looks great. She looks like shes sorda worried. Anyways we went to go pick up my sisters and i was talking to my mom about what was wrong with my dad and she kept saying nothing he'll be fine nothing he'll be fine then she said nothi (started to say nothings wrong) but then stoped and said he'll be fine so again i said is tehre somthing wrong with dad and she said I'm the one who went to the doctors he didnt why would tehre be somthing wrong with him? Then she said when i have to worrie then you have to worrie. i have this realy werid feeling they might think the cancers back. .. maybe there just nervous of getting the resluts but i am almost crying and sick to my stomich.. can someone help im not sure what im asking just some advise or help she wont tell me but i'm not sure why we usaly seem realy close.. anways please leave me somthing...
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Wow,...my grandmother died of breat cancer, and i've had cancer ((a different kind)) myself. I really think something is up. And if she has it again, i'm sure she'll have a strong enough amuen system to fight it off. Sinve her body already reconizes it. You know that's how they make medicean right? They take some of the virus an insert it into the body, but not enough to hurt you or make you sick. Please don't freak out, it'll just cause un needed emotions
(Rating: 5) Thank yo so much You were were inspiring and helped me greatly. I have almost developed a fear of cancer/desise and its cares me. Well thanks please drop a inbox somtime you helped me greatly.
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