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lately ive been crying alot .... my dad died like 4 years ago.... this guy that i like that french kissed a few times just told me that he only likes me as a friend....my hair was really long and now its up to my shoulders and i hate it..... I think im really ugly but everyone else says im pretty...... im pissed off at my cheerleading coach... my mom is being really bitchy to me..... i wanna loose weight(i weight 105 pounds and im 5'1 i no that doesnt seem like heavy but i have extra fat that i wanna loose)
*****can someone help me with all this like the guy i like how can i get him to like me and what can i do about my extra fat and just give me advice***** (link)
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if everyone says you are pretty..you most likely are. you see yourself everyday so that's why you seem plain to yourself. you also see yourself at your worst. when you look in the mirror, think about the things that you do like about your appearance rather than the things you don't like and can't change.
your hair will grow. don't worry about that. it's different, but it probably looks fine all the same. take a few hours to play around with it and find ways to do it that are different.
your problems with your cheerleading coach will pass, i promise. keep working at cheerleading though..don't let it hurt your performance.
try helping out your mom..if she is a single parent (or even if shes not) then its very stressful. just a few helpful actions a day can change her attitude towards you dramatically.
you are about the same weight and height as me. i know what you mean. we aren't fat, but we aren't toned either. set a goal to do a certain amount of crunches per day..that's what i'm doing. exercise every chance you get. don't cheat on conditioning in cheerleading. try running or instead of sitting around talking with your friends..go for a walk with them..also what i do.
i'm sorry about your dad. i can't even imagine what that must be like. just cherish the memories you have with him and don't try to forget about him..but also don't consume yourself in thinking about his absence. he helped shape who you are today.
as for the guy..i'd say forget about him. i know, i know, INCREDIBLY hard..but do you really want a guy who will kiss you..but doesn't want a relationship? that shows all he cares about. you deserve someone who respects you..and he's out there. it doesn't seem like it..but there are guys out there who actually follow their heart..instead of thinking with their you-know-what..they are just harder to find. believe me, they are worth the wait.
crying is healthy, but you do deserve to feel good about yourself. focus on the positive aspects of your life. keep a journal and write about unimportant things, good things, and bad things instead of only bad things. that helps a lot.
i hope things turn around for you.
if you need more advice..or more specific advice..drop one in my inbox. i like to put time and thought into my answers and i tell the truth only. i put extra effort into questions in my inbox..though i put a ton of effort into this one because i could relate to a lot of it.
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