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My boyfriend is 20 years old and we been going out for a year (this months) and he always tells me that he is going to go to the dome(another word for a strip club) and i always tell him that if he goes i would be extremely mad. He hasn't gone to one yet, but he says he is going to. Do you think that it if stupid for me to get mad at him if he goes? I believe it stupid because he already has a girlfriend(me) that he can look at, am i not good enough for him to look at?
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You seem to have got a lot of answers defending your boyfriend. While I can kind of see where they're coming from may I just take this opportunity to say you have every damn right in the world to be bloody annoyed at this insensitive jerk.
I'm sure he loves you and may well be a great guy generally but he seems to be going about this in totally the wrong way. If it were some kind of guys stag/birthday party it would seem far more harmless in my eyes- just a bunch of lads acting like excited little boys and having a laugh. The fact he keeps holding this over you is just plain mean. Does he use it when you ahve arguements or when you're not in the mood for sex?
Either way you need to explain your insecurities to this guy and try not to worry-as others said, it's probably natural curiousity that makes him want to do it rather than not being attracted to you. Even so he should have some consideration for your feelings.
If all else fails and he does go, find a male strip club to visit while he goes to his, bring along a bunch of girlfriends and a stack of $1s. Dare him to object. When he's put in your shoes he may have a miraculous change of heart about just how good an idea "the dome" is.
And if not here's hoping you come home having replaced the bunch of dollar bills with the numbers of the dancers.
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Thank you so much! Your defiantly correct.
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