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y is it that all you gurls say you want a nice sweet guys when u wind up going out with the dark nasty selfish ones.
and dont say its bs because u know exactly what i am sayin
and a serious question demands a serious answer because my sanity is @ stake (link)
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I'm guessing your talking about teenage girls in which case I guess it's because what most are really looking for is fun, mystery and a big drama.
On the other hand the idea of the poor misunderstood rebel who only they can understand and take care of can be a very attractive (if often misguided) prospect. That's the explanation that usually applies to older women too. Needing to feel needed. Some maternal thing *shrug*.
Some grow out of it, some never want a "bad guy" at all even if they find them attractive so don't panic. Nice guys never finish last in my book, it's the selfish ones who are going to lose.
P.S. If you're a nice guy please don't try to stop being one- there are too few of you around.
In answer to your comment: it made me laugh but catagorically untrue! My own boyfriend is possibly the most terminally nice guy you will ever meet and I can assure you he is not a virgin. A guy friend of mine only managed to finally get laid once he dropped the "i'm a bastard" act and showed some actual emotion. Don't comdemn all females as being the same as those you've clearly run into so far.
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Rating: 5
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tar but nice guys die virgins and u know it
so how can i win both ways
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