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Q: There's this guy that i have known for a pretty long time. He's three years older than me and he keeps dropping hints that he likes me but i just don't feel the same way. He was walking outside school and i was inside and he kept staring at me through the window and wouldn't stop. Then he just acted wicked shy around me. I liked him like a few weeks ago but now i don't. Then there's this other guy Kolby. He's friends witht he first guy I mentioned and Kolby is still three years older than me. I think he's so cute and I really wanna actually get to meet him and sit down and talk to him. He seems so nice and he plays soccer just like i do. I was gonna ask the first guy to introduce me to him but no w i dont think i should. It's like a love triangle. Ok so here's the question. Should i ask the first guy whats going on and tell him I don't have feelings for hima nd try to hang out with Kolby more? I just need help with the whole situation! Sorry it's so long!
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That's a tough one. Well, first you shouldn't leave the first guy hanging. He likes you and you can't just ignore him. You should tell him that you don't feel the same way about him, but you want to be friends. Then there's the second guy. Asking the first guy is a bd Idea, so you should just try to talk to the second guy on your own. Walk up to him and ask if he want's to talk. Make sure you introduce your self and get to know him better. You will have to tell the frist guy about the second, because if he is your friend then it is cruel not to tell him, and if you don't you shoudl know that the second guy will, and then the first guy won't trust you. If you don't think that that is a good idea, then you can think of something like it, and just try. I hope I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. thanks!
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Thanks so much u helped a lot. It's such a messed up situatuon but if I need help I'll mkae sure i ask u! Thanks a bunch!
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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Salt Lake City Utah Occupation: school (student) Age: 17 Member Since: July 3, 2005 Answers: 304 Last Update: August 22, 2010 Visitors: 26972
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