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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.
But.
I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.
I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?
Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
or outright flames will get a 1. (link)
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i am catholic. i don't really follow my religion as strictly as others do, but do feel very strongly about my beliefs..but i don't expect everyone to share them. i'm not sure how you would catagorize my feelings towards sex, but here they are.
i have decided not necessarily to wait until marriage, but to wait for the person i want to spend the rest of my life with. you may think, yes..that would be waiting until marriage..but it isn't. it's very hard to explain. but it would have to be someone that i care enough about that i would be certain not to regret giving away that little piece of me to if things don't work out.
so pretty much, i won't have sex with any of my boyfriends in high school, or with anyone other than a serious, long-term boyfriend in college.
i'm just going to stop it there. i could go on for a while..but its just too difficult and i'm too tired. haha.
if you give me your sn in your feedback i can go into more detail or discussion.
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Rating: 5
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Spirit fox75.
Im interested, I seem to know so many people who were taught sex is a bad thing. Hell, my couisn's mother told her if she masturbated her fingers would turn black (cousin's 31 now) I just have a hard time talking to these friends to figure out exactly why the think sex is bad, everyone seems to have different reasonings, and I was expecting a few more "sex is bad, God doesnt like sex outside of marriage, etc etc posts"
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