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ok well im like one of like 10 black gurls in my city. most of the other oens r mixed though but i still count them as black.well anyways ive lived here for 2 and a half years and the whole time ive only had 2 boyfriends. y is it that white bois dont wanna go out with black gurls? a lot of guy flirt with me and say they wanna do stuff with me but they wont ask me out. what should i do becuase im always sittin around watchin all my other friends hook up with guys and im just left all alone.

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aww... well I'm not really sure if it's about race, I hope thats not what its about anyway. Some people are just attracted to girls with certain looks, ex. blonde hair, blue eyes, and more times than not, african american people aren't going to fit under those categories. I think it's stupid, it's really personality that counts, but maybe people aren't racist they just would rather be friends with you? Anyway, tons of girls go through this where their friends are "together" alot with people and they arent...and it's not always about race. I think maybe you could try making a move? Your age also counts in this sitution. Well, good luck!

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