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i have a bf who has gone threw a lot with me
and we have been together for 1 1/2 years ..
he meanse everything to me .. he has hit me
in the past and he tried to kill me .. everyone
thinks i should just get over him but i can`t
i love him .. i was gonna have his baby last year
but shit happend with my mom so i had to get
an abortion :-/ . he has also liked this girl
behind my back and hes been lying about it ever
since .. but now he says that he misses me
and everything .. i don`t know what to do ..
i miss him so much .. he just got outa jail
for something big :-/ trying to run me and
my boii off the road but he just needs help.
please help me thank you -Nikky-

Oh my God. Are you insane? No, seriously, are you? This bitch tries to run you over and you think he needs HELP? >.>. He needs a mental institution, more like it. Look, I think you need to let go of the feelings you have for him. Girls have this thing where they fall for 'bad boiz' because they think they can 'fix them' and all that dramatic shit - so I think you should give up on him because he is beyond help. Its not a healthy relationship - you think you love him, but you dont. Once you break it off, believe me, you'll find that you're more at peace.

More so, what is love to you? Is it a guy that hits you and lies to you, and hell, tries to fucking KILL YOU?! Someone who loves would never, ever do those things to you...rather try to ward you away from him. Everyone deserves someone who is going to CARE about them, not try to demolish them! I think the sooner you get out of this the easier it'll be for you. I personally think you might be afraid of him too. And when all the people you know and care about you, your friends and family, say that you should get the hell away from him, they're right, because they care.

Good luck. Make the right choice.

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(Rating: 5) wow thank you for this advice .. you know
everyone has been saying the same thing too
you made me think differently about this
situation thank you very much
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