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There isn't much to say about me. I like to give advice just as much as I like to get it. I think when you are in a situation it is much harder to see an obvious answer than if you are not in the situation.
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Alright, I liked this guy for the past three years and now I am over him. I don't want to be around him, I don't even want to see him. He plays around with me too much and I can't stand those games of his. It's games like his that hurt me so much. I don't want to be around him yet I want to show him that my feelings are changed . When I get off my bus in the morning, he's there at the table sitting there with my other friends and then he avoids eye contact. Then I do the same and say hey to everyone and put my bookbag down. He'll give me one glimpse and then I'll head to the restroom or to the cafeteria. There have been plenty of times that I have come back to the table to prove that I am over him and that I can be around him because I used to couldn't. But now , he's hitting on my friends around me, and I told my friend to go for it but she won't b/c she says that he's too hot for her. Why is he doing this in front of me, why won't he let me be, why does he have to act as if he is everything, why does he avoid eye contact, and how comes he's at the damn table every morning? I've moved on but this makes it way too complicated because I like to sit in the cafeteria in the morning but he's there and he's hitting on my friends in front of me and I don't want to be there. Oh what should I do. Please, please , please, please help me. Oh and I asked a guy and he said it's probably another game to see if I'll come back as I did all those other times before. Is this true? (link)
maybe he is trying to prove that he is over you too. or he could like the feeling of being wanted..and having the power over someone else's heart. i say don't worry about proving to him that you don't like him. not proving it is the best proof. it will also keep you from letting him lure you back in.


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Thank you so much for answering this question and for being real and the thought had occured to me as well. Thank you for answering this.




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