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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.
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my mom grounded me for having sex...im 16...wtf...i can do what i want, im almost an adult...sex doesnt have to be about love...how can i make my mom get me out of the house, i want to continue having sex and doing fun shit while i still can...*jer*
Firstly, you still live under your mom's roof, so I suggest to grow up a little and understand that you have to follow her rules! And sorry to burst your bubble, but you aren't 'ALOMST' an adult, just because you're most probably legal doesn't mean you're an adult, the fact that you think you're an adult just shows how mature you are, which is quite far! Just think about it, how would you feel if you got with a guy that had sex with a couple or thousands, the one guy you loved, I'm sure you would feel pretty dirty and just like another! Secondly, STDs and all sorts are everywhere, even if you do practise safe sex, you can still get other gross things, like pubic lice and nasty stuff like that. I think you are quite immature to be having sex, if you think sex doesn't always have to be about love, then, yes, that's your opinion, but listen to your mom and obey her rules! What would you do if something went wrong?! Do you have the money and other things like that to help yourself? You'll need your mom! So obey her!
There ARE many things out there that are fun, sex is not the only thing, and once you're older and NOT living under your mom's roof you can have as much sex as you want! You're still young now, and I think you should get your life together, sex shouldn't even be a matter right now!
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