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Okay well im a christian and everything....but i have tried weed a couple of times. see my sister was the one who got me high all those times and itsz SO0 hard to say no to her because i always feel ret@rded when i say no. well i guess whut im trying to say is, am i going to go to hell because i did it???? ANd i wanna stop doing it but i dont kno how to tell my sister.. and dont say just tell her no because you dont understand how hard it is. Because i NEVER see her and all that.. ijust dont kno whut to do...
plz help i rate high!
Not if you can get your act together, and repent if you sort of know what I'm saying. We're not born perfect and God will forgive us as long as we genually mean it and ask him for strength. Maybe try praying for the willpower to say no, since it's obviously beyond you and near impossible. When it comes right down, even though marijuana is one of the less "harmful" drugs... it's still illegal, and what you do while your high can get you hurt. Making bad decisions like running in the middle of the road and getting hit, or doing something with a guy you don't want to, stuff like that. It's not smart, and it's a waste of money. Maybe you'll feel stupid saying no, but atleast you'll spare yourself an eternity of regret, and you won't SOUND stupid because you'll be looking out for your health. Maybe you can get an adult to intervene, I don't know if you have the willpower for that, but it's worth a try and it's your sister!! If your sister was drowning, wouldn't you try to go and save her? It's kind of like the same thing. Not doing anything to help her or even your own self is letting her drown. Just think of it in those terms.
(Rating: 5) Thnxz =) i have already tried to help my sister...but she is 18 and she has been smoking nearly everyday since she was 16. my mom knosz about it and she cant do anything about it either. Anywaysz thnxz again =)