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Ok, so Ive known this guy for a long time. And hes been one of my best friends for almost as long as Ive known him. I can tell him anything and he can tell me anything. And so back in april he told me he liked me and I liked him. And so he broke up with his girlfriend because he liked me and we were....officially un-offical. If you know what I mean. But last week we hung out, and he was acting like everything was fine, when my friend pulled me aside and told me I wasnt the only girl. So later that night I asked him about it, and he said that he liked this other girl....we'll call her Ali. so I got pretty hurt. Ali goes away for boarding school in a few days...and I dont know what to do about the guy. Even if he stops liking Ali, Im still not sure if I should get involved with him again because people say he can sometimes flirt a lot. Will someone please help me out with what to do? Ill rate youu. Thanks
I think, in your case, it's going to be better and less painful to break your heart now, and call the whole relationship-to-be thing off, then getting hurt later. If he asks you about it, just tell him you still have feelings, but you don't know if it would work with him. This way, when things are less shaky and Ali's gone, and you can get a feel for what you want to do, and take a breath, then you can take it up from there. But trust me, if you rush into this, it might turn out to be a mess. So just hang in there for the time being, and see what happens!
(Rating: 5) yea that sounds like a good plan
thanks for yer help!