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Q: okay well my boyfriend and i just like started dating or whtever.And like when he asked me out and everything i really really liked him.. well after like a couple of days i kinda had a weird feeling and like i didnt really like him anymore.. so i asked a couple of people what they thought about us and like if i should break up with him, cuz like i was ignoring his calls and i really didnt want to talk to him.. well like after a while i was gonna tell him that i just wanted us to be friends.. and so i waited for his call, and waited and waited.. well he never ever called and like i tried calling but no one answered.. well like now i realy do like him i guess i was just scared i would get hurt so i was pushing him away..well i duont know whats wrong, i dont know if hes mad at me and like he hasnt called in like 3 weeks and theres no other way i could talk to him.. so what should i do and is he mad at me... i am soo sooo confused.. please help me i really like him... and i dont want to lose him and he wont answer his phone so i dunno.. thnks soo soo srry for the length.. **hearts**

You don't like him. Sorry to be so blunt. I've been in that situation a few times though, and I can say with some certainy that you don't like him. If you still did, you wouldn't have doubted it after only a couple days. Hell, it's pretty bad to feel that way after a couple weeks.

You need to talk to him though, don't take my word for it (haha, reading rainbow). See for yourself if you still like him. If you can't see him, call him. Talk for a little while about nothing in particular. You should sort out your feelings before anything else. Then decide to break up or stay together. If he is not calling you because he does not like you anymore, there isn't a whole lot you can do. :-/

Three weeks? That sounds like a breakup, m'dear. :(

Rating: 5

yea it does sound like a break up .. hmm.. thnks!

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