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Q: my boyfriend is always gone.. hes either at baseball or football or out with the guys or at the lake..he never tells me when he has to do stuff and when he is home and i wanna do something he makes me feel bad because he starts to tell me how much he misses me but its not my fault hes never home.. but rele i miss him a lot too and thats the main reason it bothers me..i wanna be able to talk to him more and see him more.. is there anything that i can do...??
Nothin wrong with going to the lake or hanging out with his friends, but he MUST make time for you too. Of course this doesn't mean that he should be around you 24/7, I REALLY RECOMMEND AGAINST ANYWAY, but come to a compromize with him.
Tell him how you see it.

Honestly though, if he wants something that will always be waiting for him when he eventually gets back from where-ever, he should get a dog.
If he expects you to make time for him, he'll have to same for you.

hope this will help you out and
good luck

thanks a bunch.. your so right!

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